Better Sex With Arya

Hey! New here?

Good choice. Arya helps couples try new things, talk more openly, and have way better sex.

Curious how it actually works? You’re in the right place.

What Can Arya Do for You?

81% of couples report a lack of intimacy after two years of being together.

In fact, we surveyed 100,000 people about their sex lives and found that:

  • 1/3 wanted more sex.

  • 1/3 wanted more sensuality and romance.

Arya delivers both. Here’s how:

  • You’ll try new things together: Novelty keeps relationships hot. Arya sends you a new Scene every month, introducing something fresh to explore. 

  • Communication gets easier. As you dive into new experiences, Arya offers tools to help you talk about even more of what you want. Win-win.

  • You'll push boundaries safely. Our Scenes are designed to explore at your own pace, so you can take your time and figure out what works for you both.

  • It's super convenient. Erotic guidance sent to your phone. Tools delivered discreetly to your door. No awkward store visits required.

  • You'll actually make time for each other. Once your box arrives, there are no more excuses. Just quality time for two.

What Arya Couples Are Saying

“It brought a lot of intimacy back to our relationship that we had let go of after 10 years.”

— Sam W. 44

“Now looking back, we realized that we both were holding back a lot, and after trying Arya, we can talk about our desires… So it’s been really fun and good for our relationship.”

— Erica A. 44

“We’ve never done anything like this before and it put a spark in our marriage and relationship. Arya’s really opened us up to new things and we’re finding out who our true selves are physically and what we really like.”

— Rachel K. 33

“I get butterflies again, and it’s great. I haven’t had butterflies in almost a decade, but now I get them again.”

— Ben J. 44

Your Onboarding Process

Your journey starts the moment you sign up:

  1. You sign up and fill out your profile. We ask about your interests, boundaries, and what you're hoping to explore.

  2. Invite your partner. We'll ask for their details so they can join you. Don't worry—it's one account for both of you.

  3. They fill out their profile, too. This helps us customize your experience even more.

  4. We curate your journey. Our team of intimacy experts matches you with perfect Scenes.

What if my partner doesn't fill out a profile? We’ll send curated Scenes based on your responses alone.

What’s Your Erotic Persona?

During onboarding, you’ll take a quick and fun quiz that will reveal your Erotic Persona.

The Erotic Personas offer a deeper insight into our preferences, turn-ons, and desires in the realm of sexuality.

Haven’t taken a quiz yet? Do it here.

Your Concierge

The Concierge is a REAL person dedicated to making your Arya experience just right for you two.

When you sign up, you choose how often you want your Concierge to check in. They're there for everything—flirting tips, Scene swaps, random questions.

You're in good hands.

Your Scenes: What Do You Get?

Let's be clear: Arya isn't “just a box.” We give you everything—content, guidance, and tools—to enhance your intimate experiences.

Each monthly experience is called a Scene. Here's what you get:

  • Inspiration: Curated fantasy stories to spark your imagination. Pick your favorite and we'll share it with your partner to build excitement.

  • Guidance: Step-by-step instructions for every new exploration. No stress, all pleasure.

  • The goods: Expert-curated items that perfectly complement your Scene, delivered in a beautiful box right to your doorstep.

Here's the timeline: Your Scene unlocks, giving you access to the digital experience and guidance. About five days later, we ship your items (it takes a few days to a week to arrive). But no need to wait: you can start playing immediately and use the digital content to build anticipation until the box arrives.

Every Scene is tailored to your specific needs—whether you're exploring intimacy or wild new desires.

A Taste of Arya

The Goods

Each box includes items carefully selected to complement your Scene:

  • High-quality sex toys (vibrators, strokers)

  • Sensory toys (pinwheels, feathers)

  • Accessories (blindfolds, restraints)

  • Impact toys (paddles, floggers)

  • Bondage gear (tape, cuffs)

  • Premium lubes

  • And much more

Our experts test everything. You only get the best.

Here’s a few examples of our Scenes:

What’s Inside?

Every month, you’ll receive a box with goodies. Take a peek at our most popular Scenes to see what to expect.

Get Your Partner Excited

Hesitant partner? We deal with this all the time.

Our relationship experts have created a framework for talking about difficult topics—sex, intimacy, romance—with your partner.

Here are expert resources on how to get your partner as excited about Arya as you are:

Ready to start?