Tom D.

“Every relationship includes two adults. And intimacy should grow with you—not get lost along the way.”

A father to three children, Tom studied psychology and business management, and has spent the past decade as a business coach in organizations, where he heard about the work-life balance struggles and how it can hurt couples' connection and communication. 

As part of Arya’s Concierge team, Tom supports members who are just getting started or are still unsure about what they've signed up for. He brings a calm, grounded vibe to every conversation, whether you’re curious about trying something new or talking through a challenge. 

Tom openly shares the “wild life” he had before committing to his long-term partner, and the very real fear that people face of losing excitement and adventurous sexual experiences to settling down. When he’s not helping couples through the app, he’s usually out hiking with his wife or finding the next surfing spot.